How making an effort makes a difference on a date

If you’re single and looking for love, you know that first impressions are important. But you may not realise that how you present yourself on a date can make a big difference in how things go.

Speed dating is a great way to meet new, like minded people. You only have a few minutes to make a good impression, so it’s important to make the most of them.

Here are a few tips to help you make a great impression on a speed date:

1. Smile and make eye contact.

This may seem obvious, but it’s important to remember that first impressions are all about body language. Smiling and making eye contact will show your date that you’re interested and approachable.


2. Be yourself.

It’s important to be genuine on a date. If you try to be someone you’re not, you’ll only end up feeling uncomfortable and your date will pick up on that.


3. Ask questions and listen.

Conversation is key on a date. Ask your date questions about themselves and really listen to their answers. This will show that you’re interested in getting to know them and that you’re a good listener.


4. Be positive.

Nobody wants to date a Negative person. Show your date that you’re optimistic and upbeat by being positive and having a good attitude.


5. Make an effort.

It’s always a good idea to dress up and look your best on a date. But making an effort goes beyond that. Show your date that you’re willing to put in the effort to make things work by being punctual, being a good listener, and being interested in what they have to say.


6.  Relax.

This is one of the most important tips. Speed dating can be nerve-wracking, but it’s also supposed to be fun. So, relax and enjoy yourself. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself. Just focus on meeting new people, and having a great time.


7. Have fun!

This is important. Remember, speed dating is supposed to be fun. So, don’t take it too seriously. Enjoy yourself and don’t be afraid to let your personality shine through.

Making an effort on a date can make a big difference in how things go. So don’t be afraid to put yourself out there and make a great first impression.


Following these simple tips, you’re sure to have a great time at your next speed dating event.